IS SNORING AFFECTING YOUR
PARTNER’S SLEEP?

Medically Reviewed by
Dr Ronald Krueger MD F.A.A.C.S.

SHARING A BED WITH THE PERSON YOU LOVE IS ONE OF LIFE’S GREATEST PLEASURES. IT’S THE ULTIMATE ACT OF TRUST AND INTIMACY. BUT MORE AND MORE COUPLES ARE GETTING A “SLEEP DIVORCE”– AN ARRANGEMENT WHERE COUPLES SLEEP IN SEPARATE ROOMS TO GET AWAY FROM THEIR PARTNER’S SNORING.

Poor sleep can have a major effect on the life of a snorer’s partner including feeling tired, irritable, moody and burnout. It can also affect their ability to concentrate and be productive during their working day.

Snoring can also result in relationship strain and even deep resentment. Partners tend to blame the snorer for preventing them from getting good shuteye, while snorers resent their partner for making an issue out of their snoring and for the elbow in the ribs during the night to stop the snoring.

A recent global sleep survey by Phillips found that 35% of those who live with snorers say that they sleep separately on occasion because of their partner’s snoring. 

Unfortunately, some of those who are unable to find solutions end up leaving their partners, making snoring, along with infidelity and financial problems, one of the leading causes of divorce in the world.

But there are many ways you can prevent a sleep divorce. Good communication and a better understanding of what is causing the snoring will go a long way to finding the right solution.  Improved sleep hygiene, simple sleep aids, speaking with a health practitioner, and having a healthy lifestyle are just a few easy ways to make a start.

How snoring affects your partner

Even if it doesn’t keep you awake, snoring is probably stopping your partner from getting a good night’s sleep. Ongoing sleep deprivation has been shown to have the following consequences for both the snorer and their bed partner:

Importantly, snoring can also have a negative effect on your relationship – a 2017 study found that couples that don’t get enough sleep are more likely to argue.

Here’s what you can do about it

Don’t let snoring come between you and your partner. Sleeping in separate beds should always be the last resort. Try to work out what is causing your snoring and then explore all your options. You might be pleasantly surprised to find an endless array of natural, safe, and affordable solutions available to you.

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PLEASE REMEMBER: AVOID LONG DAYTIME NAPS WHICH ONLY LEAVE YOU FEELING GROGGY AND UPSET YOUR NIGHT TIME ROUTINE. IF YOU REALLY NEED SOME SHUT EYE KEEP IT TO ABOUT 20 MINS WHICH WILL LEAVE YOU FEELING REFRESHED AND REVIVED.

THE SLEEP BETTER NATURALLY SERIES is sponsored by Rhinomed, a medical technology company dedicated to improving sleep through better breathing. Rhinomed is the maker of Mute, to aid snoring, and Pronto Sleep, to help you fall asleep and stay asleep, naturally.

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